Black Men Vs Black Women – The Problems AND The Solutions

So many Black men and women are more focused on complaining about the problems in our community, rather than looking for the solutions to those problems.

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So many people are focused on the problems but not enough people are focused on the solutions.

It’s so sad that the majority of people will not watch this video. It seems like our community only cares about complaining about the problems, not the solutions to end the problems. If you actually want to be a part of the solution then watch this video and finally see and hear the SOLUTION to our issues. 

There are many videos online attacking and bashing Black women.
It seems Black women have become an easy target for attack on social media. What’s even sadder is the majority of these hate videos come from Black men.

“Not all Black men”

Yes I know it’s not all Black men, but it’s too many. I have this phrase that I use “I know it’s not all, but it’s too many and not enough”. Because too many Black men are online bashing Black women, and not enough Black men are standing up and defending them.

Black women and Black men.

The media constantly promotes negative videos and narratives when it comes to Black love. Large companies like YouTube constantly push the most negative videos whilst suppressing positive videos. Anyone looking for videos of how Black men feel about Black women would automatically feel that Black men hate Black women. I know that this isn’t true, but when so many videos pop up saying the opposite, it becomes very difficult to say “not all Black men hate you”, or “not all Black men feel that way”. People go with evidence. 

The reality is, there are many Black men that love and support Black women.

“Where are all these Black men?”

That’s the thing, although many Black men love Black women, the negative and hateful men speak the loudest. They always feel the need to express their hatred. It makes them feel better about their lonely, pointless existence.
They then amass a following of other losers. You’ve heard the phrase “misery loves company” right?
Well, that’s what it is. 
These “men” (I use that word loosely) don’t want to look at themselves or their behavior. They lack the basic skills for introspection. So it’s easier for them to blame everything on Black women. They tell Black women to stop complaining about Black men and that “they should have made better choices and decisions” 

“Choose better”

But the irony is they don’t take their own advice. They don’t look at their experiences with Black women and say “hmmm, maybe I should have chose better”. One rule for one and a completely different rule for another. It’s a very narcissistic trait. To blame others and never take any accountability. 

So now you have a large following of Black men that hate Black women and think they are right and justified in their thoughts and feelings because other Black men are tapping on the back saying “you’re right my brother, it’s all their fault”.

Many of these men and their videos would have disappeared into the abyss, if we didn’t share or repost their videos. I understand that sometimes we may feel that we are highlighting the disgusting behavior and exposing these men. However, many times we’re actually giving them free promotion and introducing them to impressionable young minds.

There are also many videos online attacking and bashing Black men.
There are so many videos and channels now telling Black women to leave Black men and to abandon “Blackistan”…. These women claim to be divested.

“Divest”

These women refer to themselves as “Divested” Black women., but their main focus is not about being happy, but instead, simply attacking Black men and wishing for their death. Yes you read right! In this video I will show you exactly how they feel. The definition of the word “divest” means to rid yourself of something. they use this word to mean they have left the community. But strangely enough for a group of people to claim that they want nothing to do with another group, they spend an awful lot of time talking about them. Nope, it doesn’t make sense to me either. 

These women are trying to brainwash Black women into hating Black men. I know many people will say that, there are so many videos of Black men attacking Black women, and to that I ask them to watch this video demanding that black men stop attacking Black women. Many of us are attempting to change the narrative that the media wants to portray of Black love. 

“Blackistan”

These Black women who are self confessed swirlers, that love and deify white and asian men. Actually they will worship any man that is not Black. They paint an image of Black love as being negative and evil. These women refer to the Black community as Blackistan. They call Black love struggle love. Their main aim is to recruit as many Black women as possible into leaving and hating Black men.  Sounds like a cult right?

“Choose better”

They believe that choosing better means getting a non Black man. These women call other Black women that believe in and support  Black love “Mammies”. I have a video that actually breaks down the real definition of a mammy. The reality is these women are the real mammies. 
They claim that their focus is “character over color”, but that’s a farce. Especially when even if a Black man’s character is the best option, they still would not choose him, simply because he’s Black. That sounds like color over character to me. 

I understand everyone needs an outlet to express their pain, however this is not the way forward. I do not believe in double standards or hypocrisy.
We must not fall victim to the traps that are being put in place to divide us. Sadly many of us are pawns in this system and can’t see it.  

“So what can we do?”

Silence and suppress them. Ignore them. Do NOT share their videos, do not make reaction videos. Give them no promotion whatsoever. Our job is to promote positivity and love towards each other. There needs to be more positive videos. We must take a more proactive stance rather than a reactionary position. 

If you see a negative video that essentially would feed into the narrative that Black women hate Black men or Black men hate Black women, then counteract it with a video expressing your love for Black men and Black women, and debunk this false narrative. It will take a lot of work, as negativity always speaks louder than positivity. 
In the words of Mark Twain, “A lie will be half way round the world, before the truth has even got its shoes on”.

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