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There are many videos online attacking and bashing Black women.
It seems Black women have become an easy target for attack on social media. What’s even sadder is the majority of these hate videos come from Black men.
“Not all Black men”
Yes I know it’s not all Black men, but it’s too many. I have this phrase that I use “I know it’s not all, but it’s too many and not enough”. Because too many Black men are online bashing Black women, and not enough Black men are standing up and defending them.
Black women and Black men.
The media constantly promotes negative videos and narratives when it comes to Black love. Large companies like YouTube constantly push the most negative videos whilst suppressing positive videos. Anyone looking for videos of how Black men feel about Black women would automatically feel that Black men hate Black women. I know that this isn’t true, but when so many videos pop up saying the opposite, it becomes very difficult to say “not all Black men hate you”, or “not all Black men feel that way”. People go with evidence.
The reality is, there are many Black men that love and support Black women.
“Where are all these Black men?”
That’s the thing, although many Black men love Black women, the negative and hateful men speak the loudest. They always feel the need to express their hatred. It makes them feel better about their lonely, pointless existence.
They then amass a following of other losers. You’ve heard the phrase “misery loves company” right?
Well, that’s what it is.
These “men” (I use that word loosely) don’t want to look at themselves or their behavior. They lack the basic skills for introspection. So it’s easier for them to blame everything on Black women. They tell Black women to stop complaining about Black men and that “they should have made better choices and decisions”
“Choose better”
But the irony is they don’t take their own advice. They don’t look at their experiences with Black women and say “hmmm, maybe I should have chose better”. One rule for one and a completely different rule for another. It’s a very narcissistic trait. To blame others and never take any accountability.
So now you have a large following of Black men that hate Black women and think they are right and justified in their thoughts and feelings because other Black men are tapping on the back saying “you’re right my brother, it’s all their fault”.
Many of these men and their videos would have disappeared into the abyss, if we didn’t share or repost their videos. I understand that sometimes we may feel that we are highlighting the disgusting behavior and exposing these men. However, many times we’re actually giving them free promotion and introducing them to impressionable young minds.
“So what can we do?”
Silence and suppress them. Ignore them. Do NOT share their videos, do not make reaction videos. Give them no promotion whatsoever. As Black men that love our sisters, our job is to promote positivity and love towards our sisters. There needs to be more positive videos. We must take a more proactive stance rather than a reactionary position.
If you see a negative video that essentially would feed into the narrative that Black men hate Black women, then counteract it with a video expressing your love for Black women and debunk this false narrative. It will take a lot of work, as negativity always speaks louder than positivity.
In the words of Mark Twain, “A lie will be half way round the world, before the truth has even got its shoes on”.
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I got rid of my YouTube subscription because of the negativity. It was so bad it started to make me question myself. It was so bad. Now I only visit for music and movies. You have to cleanse your mind of the negativity in order to do better for yourself. Tbh im not even on social media.
You said so many things that I’ve also said or thought. I tried having conversations with black men to really discuss this issue so we can solve it, because the only way out of all this BS(colorism, racism, colonization etc) is to solve our internal issues so that we can fight the external ones. However 99% of the time it ended the same way, these men don’t want solutions, they want to keep hating, they want to keep pointing the finger, they want to keep insisting that this isn’t a big issue in the community etc. I speak very logically, but it’s like talking to a brick wall, they don’t listen and it’s incredibly frustrating. I gave up trying to talk to black men.
This is exactly what the colonizers want. If we’re too busy fighting ourselves, we’ll have no time to fight them.
You also pointed out something else that I’ve noticed, it really does seem that only a handful of black men are fighting against this hatred of black women. It needs to be a lot more black men; black men can’t just keep relying on the handful that are actually fighting against it, people get tired.
I hate seeing my fellow black women go through terrible things, whether it’s from black men or black women, I hate seeing black women abused and mistreated, especially young black girls. Having a love relationship with a black man is the furthest from my mind, my main focus with this issue is to make sure that future generations of black women don’t go through this dumb sh*t.
Just to clarify, by saying “my main focus…is to make sure that future gen. of black women don’t go through this” I’m not talking about IR dating. IR dating will not solve anything. I want all the dedicated black people unifying and rebuilding our black-only civilizations for ourselves, so that the future generations will come into this world celebrated, love, cherished, and protected.
I got caught up with one of those weird-ass n***as. Never again! Something is mentally wrong with them. It’s ALWAYS about what black women do or don’t do. Like grown children but they want to tell you how to be. Like why do you care how someone else is living what is it to you? I can tell you I have “divested” from nonsense and BS. People look at me crazy when I tell them I do not have this or that social media. Like how could I? Are you not tired or the anti-black-ish? The anti-womanhood do we not get enough of the bullish in real life. Why would I subject myself to that? Only you know what is best for you. Take care of yourself and those around you.
I agree 100 percent with you Angel. Our community is truly divided into little tribes, even though I never had a girlfriend I can’t stand how some black men bash and trash black women. It seems like we had forgotten that throughout our history, black women have been leaders and mothers like Rosa Parks and Harriet Tubman, my prayer is that the brothers who love black women and do what they need to do keep it up. As a black teen, I will do my best to spread the message, black women I love you.
🔥🔥🔥Preach Brother Preach 🔥🖤
YouTube terminated me twice….yes twice. I had my first membership from 2007 – 2020. The second one was created and terminated in 2020.
WHY??
👉🏿Because I became vocal and strong against white supremacists and racism and I did not let the LGBTQ subliminally degrade natural Black men & women.
👹👹 Social Media is paying top dollar 💰 to create content that upholds, and supports racial brutality and hatred against Black Americans especially Black women!!
😡The Influencers spreading brutality and hate against Black women are not only white, but are South Asian, African and OMG, Black American…men & women also🛑
Thank You for this Conversation
Its still a lot of black men on social media hating black women. However, I’ve seen so many good brothas on tik tok. More and more good black men are stepping up. We need more on social media. Would you consider going on tiktok?
Angel thanks for speaking on this
You are invaluable. Thank you for speaking up. What happens on social media spills onto the streets and vice versa. Some of those types of men are getting violent and it’s scary.
Very true
I’m only 15, and me and my best friend do not believe in black love. I’ve grown up on social media and I’ve never seen anybody speak highly of black women. Black men’s struggles will be put before black women’s and then black men get what they want and leave us behind and chase after the white man’s privilege now that they’ve been given an extra step. I’ve never dated anyone before but I’m not interested in getting to know anyone because of what i’ve seen and experienced. A black boy at my (all white school) has randomly told me he doesn’t like black women because white women are better. There’s only me and another black girl at this school and she’s darkskin, and I’m brownskin. I can’t speak on her struggles but I know she’s dealt with more than I have, but that boy told us that we aren’t beautiful and yet the white girls he so desperately needs call him a black rat, and probably worse, they even said it in front of me while trying to put on lip plumping lip gloss to have big full lips like mine that their black boyfriends call ugly but yet these girls want them. I have no hope, even the black men who say “not all black men”, it may be true but I’m not gonna acknowledge any man that says that until he puts his work into place and provide truth and shows that he isn’t like those other black men. He won’t call me a bitch, a hoe, refer to me as a “female, bitch, slut, hoe” and call any other person of color and white woman an actual woman. I’m everything in the book before I’m a woman in their eyes and because of that I have no way of trusting a black man. Other men of color have the women that these black men praise. These other races wanna have what black men have so they allow black men to treat us wrong, get with their women but yet still they hate the black man, I have no interest in even being part of the black community. Our ancestors traumas have been left down for us to break and yet we’re still in a cycle wanting equality but won’t fix what’s wrong with us in our own community. I found Angel’s account on youtube when I was about 13 and I just found it again. My best friend trusts no black man at all so I’m gonna show her this website and his youtube channel so she can find peace and know that yes not all black men are like that, but this one black man in particular comes with the facts to state he isn’t like the others. Thank you Angel 🤎.
I understand young lady and I am 15 years older than you. You just have to find the people that are into YOU. The people that say those things there is something mentally wrong with the mind. Be true to yourself, do what you want to do in life and you will attract great people around you. Do not take nonsense from anyone and respect yourself. You will be great! Good luck
Out of all of the people who have proved to be tools of white supremacy, you Brother Angel, I will never question. You are why I opened my heart to healing and believing in Black Love and Black Unity above all else.
I see you, I hear you and I honor all you do for our community ❤️💚🖤🙏🏾✊🏾