Why I love Black Women – A Message To Black Men.
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This video that is a message to Black men, was originally created in 2014.
I know many Black women may see this video as a message that says “why I love Black women”. Of course I do love you, with all of my heart.
But this video is for Black men, I want Black men to understand the necessity of expressing your love to Black women. I want Black men to realise that if we don’t change our ways and change how we treat Black women, then Black women will leave us.
Some Black women may say that they love Black men, and regardless of what happens they will always love Black men. But I need Black men to understand that love is not unconditional. Love comes with conditions. The conditions that we treat Black women like Queens. That we must also be worthy of their love.
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There are so many videos online from different races of men that say “why I love Black women”. These videos have so many views. It’s sad that it just takes a few sweet words to get attention. But for one moment, don’t look at it as Black women preferring to hear these things from white or asian men, but instead see it as a group of women that are lacking the necessary love they require from their own men.
Black women have always had to be independent and strong. They have always had to rely on themselves and….. defend themselves. They are taught from an early age to not rely on anyone else for validation and in a society that constantly focuses on tearing them down, sometimes it’s nice to hear positive things rather than the constant negatives.
When men from your own race are all over the internet attacking and bashing you, it becomes very easy for white and asian men to just pop up and say “I love their lips”, because something as simple as that, can mean a lot in an ocean full of narratives that say “they’re too dark, ugly, hair too nappy, too ghetto, too rude”.
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I am reading this book by Hill Harper I just came a crossed it and it’s a good book. It speaks about Relationships within the Black Community. The more I read it, I am inspired, motivated, and most of all understanding of how lost most black men and women are.
As a dark-skinned woman growing up in the South, I was called everything in the book. But, it was not until I fell in love with myself that it stopped affecting me. I began to see that some black men can not love black women because they do not love themselves not their mothers which prohibits them from choosing a black woman. I am glad you made this video because after dating another hurt black man I have decided to be open to dating outside of my culture, widening and limiting it to the black diaspora (Afro-Latino, African, etc.) I will always love American black men, but I have yet to meet a man who is not beaten so badly by this world that he can love and be loved. Thanks for your video!
Love and appreciate you ❤
I appreciate the video. I separate and have always separated real men from males who behave like uncivilized hounds or spoiled toddlers. Real men are something special. I value, love and appreciate them. They take care of business without needing reminders. Generally speaking, when people insult you it’s actually projection and a reflection of how they feel about themselves. My confidence and self worth is too high for their two cents to make me self conscious. Black men has any reason to degrade Black women. Whatever issues they have with their mothers or girl in 8th grade who rejected them has nothing to do with the entire group of Black women. Maturity, respectability, intelligence, confidence and joy looks good on everyone. There’s nothing sexier than a man who has it together.
im not saying degrading black woman is ok but theres a reason the white man programmed their minds to take it out on lack woman and thats what their doing
Love u Angel!!!!
You spoke nothing but facts 👏🏾
This video need to be shared millions. I thank you my son, from a black woman who loves herself and you. Continue to be yourself, never change.❤️💚🇧🇧