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There are many videos online attacking and bashing Black women.
But there are also a lot of videos online attacking and bashing Black men. There are so many videos and channels now telling Black women to leave Black men and to abandon “Blackistan”…. These women claim to be divested.
“Divest”
These women refer to themselves as “Divested” Black women., but their main focus is not about being happy, but instead, simply attacking Black men and wishing for their death. Yes you read right! In this video I will show you exactly how they feel. The definition of the word “divest” means to rid yourself of something. they use this word to mean they have left the community. But strangely enough for a group of people to claim that they want nothing to do with another group, they spend an awful lot of time talking about them. Nope, it doesn’t make sense to me either.
These women are trying to brainwash Black women into hating Black men. I know many people will say that, there are so many videos of Black men attacking Black women, and to that I ask them to watch this video demanding that black men stop attacking Black women. Many of us are attempting to change the narrative that the media wants to portray of Black love.
“Blackistan”
These Black women who are self confessed swirlers, that love and deify white and asian men. Actually they will worship any man that is not Black. They paint an image of Black love as being negative and evil. These women refer to the Black community as Blackistan. They call Black love struggle love. Their main aim is to recruit as many Black women as possible into leaving and hating Black men. Sounds like a cult right?
“Choose better”
They believe that choosing better means getting a non Black man. These women call other Black women that believe in and support Black love “Mammies”. I have a video that actually breaks down the real definition of a mammy. The reality is these women are the real mammies.
They claim that their focus is “character over color”, but that’s a farce. Especially when even if a Black man’s character is the best option, they still would not choose him, simply because he’s Black. That sounds like color over character to me.
I understand everyone needs an outlet to express their pain, however this is not the way forward. I do not believe in double standards or hypocrisy.
We must not fall victim to the traps that are being put in place to divide us. Sadly many of us are pawns in this system and can’t see it.
“So what can we do?”
Silence and suppress them. Ignore them. Do NOT share their videos, do not make reaction videos. Give them no promotion whatsoever. Our job is to promote positivity and love towards each other. There needs to be more positive videos. We must take a more proactive stance rather than a reactionary position.
If you see a negative video that essentially would feed into the narrative that Black women hate Black men, then counteract it with a video expressing your love for Black men and debunk this false narrative. It will take a lot of work, as negativity always speaks louder than positivity.
In the words of Mark Twain, “A lie will be half way round the world, before the truth has even got its shoes on”.
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Sad but true, Angel. Some people can come back to rational thought after being brainwashed.
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When I was little I was trying to fight these new kids that were throwing stuff out the window at me… Talking about my shoes was ugly… my clothes was stupid.. my hair was stupid… N they were gonna cut it out… My bike was stupid… My skates… My EVERYTHING was stupid apparently… Lol.
While I was going to the house to get my cousins so we could kick their door In and and drag them outside the kids older sister came out like hey… I’m such n such… She like I see you’re mad… But don’t be mad… Don’t argue with them… You should just ignore them… She like how old are you?
I sd 11. She was like ok you’re my age I’m 12. That’s my little brother and sister they are only 9 and and 10. She was like don’t pay them any attention don’t let them get u mad… They’re kids… They’re stupid… kids are stupid… u didn’t know that…They don’t know no better… They really retarded. They are always doing dumb stuff. Don’t fight them please.
And you look cute… I like your this and that… And if you fight… You will get dirty.
( That kind of triggered something… Cuz yeah my mom would be pissed anytime I didn’t come home looking like a perfectly dressed mannequin.)
When she sd that it made me think about
A few things.
1. My Grandma had just told me like I gotta stop fighting all the time. She sd think about what people would say about me when I die. Do I just want my grave to say she beat everybody up and everybody knew not to mess with her.
She asked me to think about what I want to be known for. She also taught me about learning to pick and choose my battles and that I can not fight everybody about every single thing. That I had to figure out when to fight and what’s worth fighting for.
2. I thought about how all the boys around me always told me to beat up anybody that messes with me as soon as they do… Don’t give no chances. N how I can’t let nobody disrespect me… ever.
3. I thought about her… Is she trying to set me up? Is she lying? Are they really retarded for real? Is she just trying to save them? Can I just beat her up without getting jumped. Can I pretend like I’m cool to get her to stay outside n come back so we can just get in the house to get the other 2 kids? Is it bad to fight “retarded” kids if they are this bad?
But I also wondered why she was so calm… Why she was only a year older then me but she was mature enough to look at things in an adult way… Cuz I have never heard a kid talk like this about something so serious to me… How was she my age… In my neighborhood… And not understand why I needed to fight them…
When I look back at this situation now. I realized that was absolutely a crossroads moment in my life that allowed me to grow and start to change. Life had presented 2 different roads to take … And only I could choose. I could have done what I knew best… Or I could listen to this girl … Even though it’s foreign and different. ( My Grandma had already planted seeds that helped me to consider what the girl was saying.)
The girl and I became friends for a lil while. So I would see her lil sister often… We were cool (the little sister)… But I never forgot that one day I just might beat yo azz… But the lil sister was always focused on me… But when I look back…
Those kids were always can I wear your purse.. can I try on your shoes… Can I play In your hair… When you don’t want this or that anymore.. can I have it? … Can I have …can I… can I…. I wish I had a… This or that… like u… Can ur mom do my hair too….
I found out later that the reason they didn’t have anything was because their house burned down… Someone gave them that house and all they really had was the stuff people was dropping off to them.
But the point of the story is that I learned that from this situation and others… Not to take personal attacks too personally. Jealousy manifests its self in different ways. A lot of times it’s not that people don’t like you per se… It’s that they don’t like what u represent. Or they feel like why them… and not me??? They are incredibly insecure and would die before admitting it… So all they give out is hate.
They are jealous of the things that u have and they want the same. Even the small things like being happy on the outside… Strong will… a good heart…. ect.
A jealous person will never say…hey I’m jealous of you. But they will study you from a far and begin to emulate you… Especially when you act as if they don’t exist… They will act mean and nasty… But they want your attention soooo badly… They want you to notice them… Your attention validates something in them… Even if it’s a negative response. Remember kids that act up do so for attention…. They don’t care how they get the attention… They just need attention.
People become envious of the silliest things. But, when you are not like that it’s hard to recognize and accept sometimes… Because we try to figure out the who, what, where, when, and why of their distain…. But our minds don’t operate as theirs do… So it’s hard to wrap your head around the negativity of broken people.
It could be something as simple as liking yourself, dressing well, and being happy…or Having the courage to go against the grain.
But to a miserable person that doesn’t know what it’s like to give and receive love in a healthy way…. or say hey I like what you’re about… U wanna be friends… That will burn a hole through their soul… Cuz they want it… Sometimes people act as if they don’t like u… The the real problem is that they wish they were u… or could be with u …or be like u… but, they know they can’t …so, they act out.
N all they have inside is misery and hurt… So they verbalize and project thier misery and hurt. Receiving negativity is all they know… So they expect and welcome it back after throwing it out… N they are built for the backlash… Love, kindness, and patience is a foreign concept to them… when you don’t give animosity back… They see weakness… Bc life has taught them that this is how you behave… This is how you get what you want… This is what gets me attention.
Sometimes you’re just a reminder of what they can’t be… Or couldn’t have… Or what they could have been…had they taken a different route… N for that they hate u…. n Sometimes ur just dealing with an energy vampire trying to burn you out so you don’t continue your agenda.
When people say trifling nasty things to me… I look at their life/appearance… N I’m like ohhh… Ok. I get it. I choose to remember that in order for someone to say or do something horrible to me… that someone once showed them that… Someone hurt them so badly inside and they verbally assaulted them in away that they couldn’t recover from it.
I choose to remember that adults are just big overgrown children… And depending on what age something inside of them broke… that is is what society gets in the adult version of this broken child… Adults are just manifestations of all of their unresolved childhood traumas.
I recently learned that I have to stop over giving. But I give a lot because I know what it feels like to want… And I know what it feels like when people give to me… So of course I want to give others that feeling. I can give freely because people have given to me freely. Plus, I know how to get it back… Even if I’m down for a lil while… I know it won’t be long… So I would give and not care about reciprocity in materials. Plus, I learned as a kid not to give/ let people borrow unless I didn’t care about getting it back.
This lady once told me that it’s okay to share my blessings… But don’t give my blessings away… That stuck with me…
In contrast, this guy once told me to not give people anything. I also had some one tell me never accept anything from anyone… Yet, I’ve also had someone tell me …that if someone wants to give me something or do something for me… Just say yes… Stop saying no…
What I take from all of that is finding balance.
I operate from a place where I give what I can… When I can… But if I want to be a little bit selfish with my time, money, energy… Whatever… That’s okay too… sometimes. Cuz everybody needs to revive and rest… Its hard to keep giving when you don’t get anything fed back into you in return. But I also know to only give from my heart when I can… And not to expect anything back.
I also know that people are very immature and not to expect great things from underdeveloped minds. Sometimes I’ll turn people by being love… Sometimes I won’t.. sometimes I don’t even care… That’s up to them. And sometimes I care more then I should.
Some examples like when I worked in the day care I had a lil baby girl who instantly did not like me… She would pull my hair… Scratch on my face… Hit me… Try to push me out the class… Saying no girl… No…. But I just loved on her…
I corrected her gently and taught her that she couldn’t hit me…. every time she would do it I’d just tell her no…hug her and tell her that I love her… After a couple days she stopped. She started bringing me her toys and wanted to feed me her food. By the end of the week she was screaming and crying and holding on to me when her mom came to get her cuz she didn’t want to leave me.
But in contrast, I had this teen that I hand picked based off her performance…and race that I hired for my team… she stole food during her training class and they were about to fire her. By the time she got to me from training she had went the wrong way. But I was like no. You’re not firing a kid for being hungry. I offered to pay for the food and explained that she probably did it bc she didn’t have money yet and was hungry as she had just started working. I even threatened to leave if that’s how they were going to treat people.
I never told her about this… ( Because I couldn’t show favoritism nor allow her to think that she was favored enough that she didn’t have to be her best… nor give agents any amo if I ever needed to fire them.)
This lil girl was hell bent on hating me under the guise that I didn’t like her and just wanted her fired. I couldn’t convince this girl that I was on her side and to just trust me until I gave her a reason not to…
I was never able to get her to see that I was team her… bc she had already believed in her heart that I was out to get her… this lil girl did nothing but disrespect me and lie on me… she even thought she was taking some guy that likes me that I wasn’t remotely interested in away from me… she tried cozying up to my boss and thought she was doing something… but I kept trying to get her to see herself the way I saw her… bc I saw potential In her. As much as it hurt me to do so… I had to let it go…as she was bad for business… She didn’t see her own potential and I couldn’t want it for her more then she wanted it for herself.
There’s this quote from a movie ” When life makes you deal with mean and hateful people… Just think of them as sand paper…. They may scratch you… And rub you the wrong way…. But eventually you’ll end up smooth and polished… And the sand paper… Well it’s just gonna be worn out and ugly.”
I keep that with me.
I get a lotta hate… But I also have given and received genuine love from many people…and sadly many people haven’t, Or choose not to remember when they did. So I feel like they can’t really be my enemy unless it’s time for a physical battle or they step they life up… Cuz I humbly believe that they are not on my level yet.
To me they are just stupid little kids who are mentally underdeveloped throwing things out the window at the person they really admire… But can only express it from a bitter and broken inner child…that none has ever really cared for to full capacity. I understand that real has never existed for them… so they may choose not to receive it. And anybody that don’t stand with u when ish gets real… or that sabotages u…It just gives you the opportunity to see the real from the fake.
Some people we’re only meant to be an example to… It’s up to them what they choose to do with the positivity… We don’t have to change them… That’s up to them. All we have to do is be righteous examples when they cross our paths.
After that I think it’s perfectly ok to dismiss them from our lives if they didn’t learn their lessons. We do not have to go down with them. I literally categorize people like ok… Are you a lesson, a person I’m to be an example to… Or a person that’s supposed to be in my life… Or a stumbling block… I seriously have to ask myself who are you in my head when dealing with people… And deal with them accordingly…
I have to remember that a lot of people are brainless… And that they will only do what everyone else is doing… When I try to show people videos… The first question outta thier mouths is oh… How many likes do they have…. Before they’ll even listen…. ???? Are u serious??? Why does that matter???
I also think that sometimes when you don’t react to people the way that they’re accustomed to… It could help them change. Sometimes people need tough love and sometimes they need to be ignored. When you keep doing what u feel is right and just do you. Some people will come and say…hey… U know what… I was wrong about you. I misjudged you… And I’m sorry.
Others won’t… But even the ones that keep you as an enemy… You also spark inspiration in them… You’ll notice they try to do things more like u… Even if it’s outward stuff… Bc underdeveloped minds might not understand that it’s the things on the inside that make me and cause me to move the way I do. Maybe they’ll get their… Maybe they won’t. All that really matters is that you crossed their path and were a good example when u did.
Lying, cheating, stealing,over exaggerating, putting others down without justification…. All of these things are crimes of dishonesty. And those who practice them lack good moral standards, integrity, respect, and self esteem. Those are the building blocks that people need to self develop… Prior to being able to tackle bigger issues such as unity… How can they digest unity above anything else when they couldn’t even manage thier one life, thier one soul, and their individual obstacles properly??? Togetherness can’t possibly be understood by them. I think sometimes good people get survivors remorse too… because maybe we know it could have been us… And we try to do so much to help… Which is okay until we’re faced with burn out…. Then that’s not good either.