What do women really want from men? This video answers all of your questions.
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What do women want from men?
This video will give you a few ideas, that although may seem like common sense, we all know that common sense is not so common.
The main thing to know is that all women are different and want different things. Sorry guys, this isn’t going to be easy. But who really wants an easy life? Yep me too 😂.
A few things.
Women don’t need men that invest all their energy in trying to prove how strong, manly, masculine, macho, or heroic they are. Instead they want men who are willing to meet them where they are and treat them fairly and are able to make sure that the romantic spark keeps burning.
For example the traits that women tend to value and need most from the men in their lives can be categorized in three discrete areas. Moral integrity, relational sensitivity and satisfying intimacy.
Traits of Moral Integrity
Mutual respect is an all-or-nothing proposition. Once a person loses respect for a partner, all bets are off. Women should be given the same respect that men offer other men. When a person is made to feel disrespected or patronized, the relationship is likely to end sooner rather than later. Even when you’re angry or disappointed by a partner, respect should be maintained.
Open communication that occurs regularly and tactfully is essential. A healthy relationship flourishes when communication is clear.
Honesty is another “make or break” trait. Therefore don’t give her any reasons to doubt you.
Trust and trustworthiness allow relationships to deepen.
Additionally taking responsibility for actions and behavior go a long way. Long-term healthy relationships require a high level of maturity. Without it, disagreements and conflict worsen as couples engage in the “blame game.” Communication fails and emotional damage can be done that cannot be easily repaired.
Traits of Relational Sensitivity
Women need men to show kindness, patience, understanding, empathy, and compassion. So it is important let her know that her trials and tribulations matter to you.
Be her friend.
Friendship between men and women is also desired. Being a friend to your woman means treating her in the patient, accepting manner in which you treat your close friends.
Being supportive to the woman in your life can do a world of good. Supporting your partner is a primary role. Whether your partner needs emotional or practical support, be there to assist in small and big ways. Whether it’s taking time to listen, or more active involvement in major decisions, child rearing, finances, etc., make your presence a positive and supportive one.
Sensitivity coupled with validation of your woman’s experiences are essential. Recognize your own biases in how you view other women and imagine how your partner might be negatively affected by a world that sees women as less than. Don’t assume she is making things up when she shares stories of prejudice, discrimination, or unfair treatment. Gender roles constrain behavior; playing a part in breaking down harmful gender roles at home benefits both of you.
“I love you”
Saying “I love you” may not be easy; these words can be highly charged. Sadly, some people believe that saying them makes them vulnerable and more likely to be hurt. However, your woman, deserves to be made aware of your love. If saying those three words just isn’t going to happen, make sure you show your partner love in ways that matter most to her. We all need to feel loved.
Sex
As for sex, women ask that men don’t make everything about sex. For example, don’t do favors that you assume will result in sexual favors being done for you. Your good behavior should not be viewed simply as a means towards a particular end. Good sex can’t be bought, and by expecting sex as a payoff for doing something that pleases your woman, you turn a potentially romantic encounter into more of a business deal. Women don’t want to feel that they owe sex to their man.
Women need their men in their lives to want to see them succeed every bit as much as they want to enjoy their own success. Men should take time to recognize and acknowledge a woman’s strengths and respect her for all that she brings to their relationship. And when it comes to romantic connection, women want the same things men want; they might just want them in a different order.
In conclusion the best thing is to actually ask women what they really want. The worst case scenario is they will respond with “I don’t know”. In that case just refer to this video.
I have a tendency to test the man that I’m interested in.
I like to make decisions, but I will fallback if he proves that he can lead. My yes means yes and my no means no.
I will let my husband know what I need and want from him without any hidden signals so he will not have to guess or read my mind.
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Wow Angel
That was actually really good. Let me find out u actually get us😉.
I didn’t listen to it at first because I didn’t know what to expect… N I didn’t want to hear you say anything that I wouldn’t be able to get unstuck from my head and make me look at you differently.
🙃 But I’m glad I listened and read the other part.
My favorite part was the Moral integrity part… It’s like you took the words straight out of my head.
Some things that I think are really important to include in part 2….
1. Don’t let other women/ people come for her crown. Irregardless of who that other female/ person is… Rather it be your mom or sister or male relatives giving bad advice…like keep everybody else outta the relationship… Bc relationships can’t work when there are too many people in them.
Or rather it’s like a niece purposely calling your girl your ex’s name “on accident”. Or your sister purposely drinking her wine on your girl bday or all of a sudden having an emergency and needing hundreds of dollars on your girl birthday bc she has some type of financial emergency.
Or if it’s your sister purposely coaching y’all childhood friend to leave her coat in a space of your house that she should not be In.
Or everytime you spending time with your girl u gotta go spend equal or more time with a female blood relative cuz if you don’t then the female blood relative gone have something else to say… No one wants to deal with that.
Like don’t let things like this happen cuz just like guys know guys … Women know women…
And if you don’t believe her or leave her to take up for herself against these ppl… or just don’t think these things are a big deal…. eventually y’all relationship is gonna end.
Oh and female “best friend” or childhood friend…
If a female friend zoned you and gave u the title of brother or best friend all that means Is that she didn’t like u like you liked her. Or wanted something more even though she likes alot of the qualities that u do have. But she cared enough not to wanna break your heart completely. It also means that she still wanted to be special to u… She still wanted to mean more to u than any other girl u fucked with… N she still wants to receive gifts and attention from u.
It’s essentially like a sneaky way to have an open relationship… So just in case she can’t find anyone else… You’ll always be there.
And 2. Respect the male and female balance. Like the ying and yang of it all. Like just like a guy is a woman’s physical protection. The female is the masuculine’s spiritual protection. It would be nice if Guys trusted her enough to also trust her intuition. Like if she say yo… I know that’s your homeboy and all… But he low-key don’t fuck with u like u fuck with him…
How about asking her why she sd that… U might be surprised to find out that the reason he think you changing or spending too much time with the woman u love is bc he tried to hollar at her first and got turned down … And he be saying lil shit on the slide … And he really just jealous and on some grimy female shit.
IDK for me it’s nothing more unattractive then watching a man be played by another person… especially another female… Cuz I know wtf she doing… It makes the man unattractive cuz he’s just sitting here and letting it happen. Eventually she will loose respect for u.. watching u be played.
3. IDK I guess I said all of that to say… Like have all the energies in your life already checked before you try and have a long term situation with someone. Cuz all that microagression and misplaced emotional energy that men try and hide is visible.
We can see that you irritated that every female in your family is annoying u…
Like I meet so many guys that are actually wishfulfillment for me but he taking care of all of his neices and nephews… He taking care of his sisters… His momma… His aunties… his cousins…All these ppl emotionally and or financially.
I just be looking like wow u said u have no kids… But in all actuality u do… Bc u have all of these people that you’ve made yourself obligated to.
Your family should already have healthy boundaries in place or be working toward them. Your family should not feel like they are loosing something just because u fell in love… Nor should they be able to successfully make u feel guilty for trying to start your own family. Nor should you be sitting here trying to pacify these women when it comes to ridiculous things such as why did you buy your girl friend something… But didn’t buy me anything… I’m your sister….😭😭😭.
Cuz if I say bitch because I’m fucking him and I make him happy n blow up… I’m wrong… But u not wrong for making the only solution to the problem is for me to wait to eat so that no one will see us eat bc u tired of ordering for 10 people everytime u want food.
It’s like how u expect to have a fulfilling relationship???…when You have all of these karmic entities siphoning out all of your energy so you’re depleted by the time you get to me and your patience is thin. N if I can’t see nowhere for me to fit in after trying… I’m out.
So, in short I was trying to say work toward healing trauma bounds and codependency before u try and share your life with someone else… Or at least run like hell once they have been pointed out so that u can begin healing. Like don’t expect nobody to want to come down from their higher place and sust in this shit with u…. If u not tryna come out of the trauma bond and codependent relationships.
I went on a while rant… Sorry… Lil… But I’mma post it anyway.
Yesssss baby! Speak on it! 😍
This video was necessary for my boo to hear because we have had some arguments about his non listening skills at times. He feels like he knows or understands me when he has already shown signs that he has not been listening like he claims. I will keep this video in mind when he acts up again. Thank you Angel!