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Boyce Watkins….. his name sounds familiar
Thank you Angel for putting this panel together. This livestream is powerful. I think most, if not all, black people can see their viewpoints represented here. There’s a mirror effect. I tend to focus more on why something was said, than what is actually being said. Intentions are everything to me. To not understand our present condition and how it came to be that way means that we cannot yet start the process of healing ourselves, unlearning, or correcting our negative thought patterns and behaviors. Healing also entails taking accountability for our own actions and not requiring those who have played a part in our affliction to acknowledge it, nor stop playing their role in it. To not know ourselves, means that we have no way of knowing what our worth is and we lack the personal insight to see it. We let life happen to us instead of taking control over our own life and being intentional and deliberate in our decision making, especially when it comes to relationships. I want to affirm that a woman’s or a man’s marital status has nothing to do with his or her worth. It could be a reflection of the majority of people’s inability to meet the standards that he/she has already met and set for themselves. If we were to lift each other up and educate each other like we do for ourselves then there’d be a surplus of partners to choose from. Some do themselves, and any future children they may have, a disservice by settling and having to continuously readjust their expectations in accordance with their partner’s behaviors throughout the relationship. This can be harmful to everybody involved. We should all ask ourselves, how we have come to turn on each other due solely to the actions of a known common enemy? I’m too prideful to succumb to my enemy’s efforts to destroy me and those who, not only look like me, but share my ancestry, experiences, and plight. #BlackLove #BlackUnity #BlackConsciousness #IKYG
Woooooow!!!!!!!
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I’ve been watching Sa Neter forever! I feel so special watch some of the smartest people ever having a conversation! My face might explode. 😃
Great panel, I loved how Cynthia G never backed down.
Zara says the same thing about the 50 black men she knows the problem is 50 is nothing’s out of 23 million. She has a problem with Black Women. Where is she when BM are online going off on BW. Where is the accountability on BM? That’s why We will never be any better, because women like me are tired of taking the blame, carrying the weight and being shamed. I am calling out the bull. I will not be a sjw for this broken community.
Agreed.
Whoa! That was a lot in one video. At times it was hard for me to watch. But, I watched the entire video because I often wonder if it’s more to solving the problems that exist between black men and women, than what’s been revealed to me. Likewise, I often wonder if it’s more to the how aspect.
As a solution driven person, I think that the question asked initially was a very important one. Likewise, the responses all had some pieces that I carry in my own heart. In addition, there were some parts that made me cringe.
I’ve never listened to any of the personalities aside from Dr. Watkins. I usually catch his financial advice, so it was nice to hear him provide his prospective on relationships.
In my opinion, part of the solution involves those who wish to engage in such discussions to recognize that they are leaders rather they wish to reference themselves as such or not.
When you’re in a position to shape minds and influence others… That’s a leader position.
Strong leaders understand that not everyone that comes across the information will be able to digest it in the same way… Some will absord the information from their higher self and some from their lower self.
Since conscious terms were thrown out … I think it’s okay to point out that not everyone who had an opportunity to share their ideals was able to operate from their higher self.
And that’s okay too. As I understand things… We’re all at different stages/levels of growth.
Some people are at an infantile stage…drinking milk… While others have graduated to a stage where they are eating meat. So we won’t all comprehend one another nor information, nor personalities, nor agendas the same way.
Therefore, I know that we won’t all have the same approach to a solution. I know it’s important that the conversation be had and people need to converse in order to find a solution…. That part made my soul smile. Even more importantly… I think that these conversations have to wrap up soon and we need to start executing the plans.
To add, I think that it’s important to for people in a leadership positions to practice what they’re preaching to others. We should all practice consistency, humility, proper interfacing, and actual problem solving when engaging with one another.
Furthermore, I think it’s crucial that one examines her own heart before beating someone else over the head with her knowledge, ideology, and perspective.
Not only should a person analyze what they’re going to say before speaking… One should determine if it’s necessary… Not just true.
Before speaking I think it’s important to evaluate if the audience is ready for the knowledge that you want to share… Are they in a place where they can receive and process ideals outside if their own. If not perhaps the delivery would be better received if given with a dose of sugar or delivered with a different tone or some wording rearrangement.
When we become bold enough to start throwing out words such as high vibrational and low vibrational that is a personal assessment of one’s entire make up… Energy centers and aura. Why are we using spirituality as a debate tool?? What kind of place is that coming from????
One should also understand that when you’re dealing with someone who is being “low vibrational”… The response can’t be an equally terrible counteract with no love or sincerity behind it. I hope we are not at a place where we’re willing to weaponize spirituality against one another.
I also know that when you get that emotionally involved during a conversation we have to be willing to start asking the universe what’s the lesson here??? What am I supposed to learn from this? A lot of times the universe could be sending you a giant mirror reflecting back to you your lower self that you’re conviently jumping in and out of. were supposed to catch the subtle lessons.
I really wanted my response to focus on resolution since that’s what I care about the most.
So with that being said, I think that our solution includes those that have a mind to do so operating out of high vibrational love consistently for all of us even when they have a different energy signature or perspective.
Just to clarify, I’m talking about the Divine Neptunian type of love… Which is the strongest type of love. That type of love supercedes the other forms of love and shifts our perspective.
That type of love puts us in a place where we understand that it is nolonger necessary to say whatever you want out of your mouth to your people under the guise of keeping it real…. or just telling the truth…Especially if your intent is to ultimately influence or promote positive change.
When we collectively arrive to a place where we have mutual respect for each other… Pertaining to strengths and weaknesses… In addition to the different positions of life and others life view ..
… When we get here as a majority we’ll begin to understand that everything that’s lawful isn’t expedient…. Meaning everything that we have free will to say and do…. We don’t say and do… Because we get to a point where the mission is more important than ego.
If my mission is to elevate consciousness and promote solutions and problem solve… It would be counter- productive for me to engage in Being nasty- nice or operating from my lower self at all when someone disagrees with me, challenges my beliefs, or or mirrors my own negative energy back at me. Self awareness, open mindedness, and self analysation has to be a constant thing if we’re going to learn to support, love, and heal one another.
Realistically, how can I help someone if I have the same deep rooted struggle as them??
I’ve noticed that we sometimes get to a place where we can see everyone else’s problems… But we can see our own .
Anyway, to wrap up my point, I believe that I have to be the change that I want to see in the world first. When I raise my vibration… I automatically raise the vibration of the planet.
Part of the solution means collectively coming out of the 3D Matrix when we consider or problems and allowing the inner man to operate from the 5D or higher to figure it all out. When we operate from a true place if higher vibration and truly week elevation… That ego dies… And then we can think more clearly.
Based on what I’ve learned, when we focus on self and refuse to be defeated by past disappointments… That healing causes elevation.
In regard to relationships when one does the individual work you’ll come into what type of person you should actually be with based on things such as birthcarts and matching energy signatures. When those types of unions come together the strength of vibration also raises the frequency of the planet. They’ll also be an example… And people mimic successful people.
There was a whole lot more that I wanted to touch on… But this post is already long enough. 🙃
One other thing that I wanted to add…
In his The Ballot or The Bullet speech Malcolm X talks about how Black people have to learn to leave their Religion at home and put the Black Agenda first.
.. bc were black first…
I think that in order to find a resolution and help others we have to remain sensitive to when we were just as lost or low vibrational…and remember how long it took us to open our eyes. And be more tolerant of other view points and maybe adopt that same ideology. Perhaps we should put egos to the side when trying to figure out how to repair the relationship between black men and women.
🏆OH Damn Angel this was good 💯!!
HONESTY
ACCOUNTABILITY
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
MY PERSPECTIVE: 👇🏾
1. Boyce Watkins and ZaZa Ali are straight up anti-Black Women/mysognoire…period.🔥
2. I liked the opening remarks of both Garfield and Se Nata. ❤️
3.Akua seems like she is in an alternative lifestyle, an alternative mind… whatever that might be 👀
4. It was really wolf-pack like and
witch-y that Akua and Za Za came after Cynthia G when she spoke her solutions…WTF!! 🐍
5.Although I do not agree with everything Cynthia G says on her show, I found that on this forum I agreed with at least 98+% of what she stated.✌🏾
I have to make one last important point that none of the men on the panel were honest about, especially Boyce Watkins:
Yes there are some bad women and men, but all of these bad people did not come from broken, dysfunctional homes.
✔️Black men can not constantly keep blaming every negative thing about the Black American male on white Supremacy and racism, when oftentimes their downfall came from defying the wisdom of their own parent(s)!!
my question is who takes who’s last name lol? That ought to clear up the submission issue.
Wow this is old…but damn Cynthia is fire!!!!! The truth hurt blk man…but its real talk.
Zaza is bugging. Black women are not rehabilitation centers for hurt toxic grown black men.
We do not birth grown men, we birth children.
She really just said love black men even when the love, respect and loyalty is not requited. She needs a reality check. She is far from a truth seeker/teller.
Cynthia was on point
This is a really great panel ! However, I really don’t understand why it was so hard for Zsa Zsa and Boyce to grasp the concept of what Cynthia was trying to say !! Societal and systemic power is something that Black men do not have !! That has nothing to do with black women not “speaking life” into black men, nor does it mean that Cynthia was deliberately bashing black men !!!! Black men as a collective, also meaning GLOBALLY(WORLDWIDE) are not doing anything to dismantle white supremacy and pull their people out of subjugation !! After all, look whats happening in Africa !! This has nothing to do with individual Black men, but once again, Black men as a worldwide, COLLECTIVE !!!! As a collective, Black men have no resources ! I’m talking about hospitals, banks, human resource centers, Black owned community centers, schools, etc !!!!! I disagree with what Boyce said about it taking several decades to abolish white supremacy ! We’ve been out of the motherland for over 500 years !! Black men as a collective have had decades to not only pull their fellow men, women and children from under white rulership, but to effectively create wealth and establish black communities and resources specifically for black people without white interference !!!! This has yet to happen !